A Website for Grief Help
The Compassionate Friends
When a child dies, at any age, the family suffers intense pain and may feel hopeless and isolated. The Compassionate Friends provides highly personal comfort, hope, and support to every family experiencing the death of a son or a daughter, a brother or a sister, or a grandchild, and helps others better assist the grieving.



WHY WE ATTEND: Hunger for help from hopelessness, lost feelings and despair.

SOME THINGS WE RECEIVE: (1) Outpouring of support (2) Remarkable compassion and encouragement (3) Demonstration of the abiding power of hope.

WHAT WE LOOK FOR IN OTHER BEREAVED PARENTS: (1) Those willing to encounter others’ sense of bewilderment and to continue to be there in order to help rebuild lives that have been crushed by loss. (2) Those willing to press on in spite of the personal trauma of their own loss or losses. Those with ideals, integrity and the vision which embodies hope and is dedicated to an ideal still in the future. (3) Those who are compassionate and great enough to rise above their own pain and grief in order to help and inspire others, yet humble enough to really listen and to be inspired by others. (4) Those willing to embrace each other as models of persistence, faith, dignity, and passion to our cause of promoting concern, and ongoing support and caring for others. (5) Those willing to accept the challenge that is worthy of inspiring others and dedicating ourselves to building a chapter that is working to fulfill the hope that others see in us.

After more than 15 years…….



By Faye McCord, TCF/ Jackson, MS - Written in thanks and dedication to all bereaved parents who reach out in support and encouragement to others, and especially to the Jackson MS Chapter, and in loving memory of my son, Lane McCord (1/26/65 - 9/13/98)


Observations on Long-Term Grief

Does our grief seem remote after several years have passed? The crisis is over; the dramatic unbelievable event of our child's death may seem to lie dormant some of the a sleeping serpent still ready to strike at a moment's notice. But the serpent when confronted will strike because we are always vulnerable to it's attack. The attack may come in different forms; an unexpected phone call with bad news; a chance encounter with an old friend who may ask about our child; perhaps even an invitation to a "happy" event. Most of the time we are unprepared for the serpent's attack and we may feel helpless to endure it's poisonous venom. And sometimes, especially after several years of attacks from the serpent, we may have tried to build up an immunity to its attack - a wall we may try to hide behind. We have been bitten so many times, we may grow resistant to grief's venomous bite. We may need an antidote. What could possibly help? What could the "grief antidote" be? Could it be a fresh immunization; a booster shot of compassionate friends meetings, possibly more grief work? After all, we will live with this grief serpent the rest of our lives. I know for me, just being with my compassionate friends who understand me and are here to help me is one antidote I use to help combat the poisonous venom of grief. I need you! We need each other! Let us be here to help immunize the effects of poisonous grief with our understanding and our compassion.

Lane’s mom

Faye McCord, TCF/Jackson, MS

Elisabeth Kubler Ross (counselor on grief)
Various Articles and Books on Grief

Bereaved Grandparents
The MISS Foundation’s Alliance of Grandparents
AGAST has operated since 1993 as an all volunteer organization dedicated to helping grandparents through the trauma, stress and grief after the loss of a grandchild. The organization has grown to such proportions that we are unable to keep up with all the changes, so in 2007 we merged with the MISS Foundation, another wonderful group of caring, loving, and compassionate volunteers, mostly bereaved parents, who have the physical and emotional stamina, not to mention the sheer numbers, to serve our bereaved grandparent community in the manner we deserve.

Perinatal Loss
Faces of Loss, Faces of Hope
An organization for mothers who have experienced a miscarriage, stillbirth or infant death.

SHARE (A Source of Help in Airing and Resolving Experiences)
National nondenominational organization offering physical, emotional, and spiritual support to bereaved parents. Pregnancy and Infant Loss.

Sibling Support
Healing Hearts: Sibling Grief
This section of our site is designed to provide information and resources for brothers and sisters who are grieving the death of their sibling(s). We will do our best to add more information as we discover it in the way of articles stories and links.

Suicide Survivors
The Alliance of Hope for Suicide Survivors
The Alliance of Hope for Suicide Survivors provides healing support for people coping with the shock, excruciating grief and complex emotions that accompany the loss of a loved one to suicide. We hope that you will find resources here to help you deal with, and eventually heal from, what may well be the worst pain you will ever feel.